We recently caught up for an exclusive interview with Adhyayan Suman over the release of his new song, Peg Daariya, with the conversation inevitably swerving away from his music and future plans as a singer to the topic we thought would be taboo to broach — his fresh breakup with Maera Mishra, who, incidentally, also features in the song. However, Shekhar Suman’s boy was magnanimously forthcoming about his breakup, divulging several details of how he’ll emerge stronger from it while also opening up on what his ex said in the media and all this, with considerable maturity.
Easing his way into the subject of his breakup, Adhyayan Suman initially said, “I’ve been through so much in my life that these things don’t affect me anymore. I’ve actually come out of such tough situations in my life, where people have said bigger things…much, much bigger things. Of course (I loved her), but see, every person breaks up very differently — I’ll break up very differently, I’ll talk about it very differently, I will deal with it very differently. I absolutely respect her decision for the way she wanted to deal with it and probably put her statements out, which is absolutely fair and fine and I don’t think I’d want to say anything and add fuel to the fire and burn the forest down because there’s no point in that.”
“I feel, people come into each other’s lives for a reason and if somebody is meant to stay, they’ll stay, and if somebody is not meant to be, it’s not meant to be. It’s a very difficult thing to understand when people want to cling onto you and be in a relationship when it’s toxic, but I believe in the absolute opposite idea of it. I feel, if your relationship is becoming toxic and if you’re not good to each other, if you’re not helpful to each other, not honest, in whatever sense, I’m generically saying all this…I feel that people should just go their separate ways. There’s so much to achieve in life, so much to do. If you’re going to sit within your four walls and fight, then you’re going to miss out on everything, and one day, you’re going to look back and say, ‘What the hell? I’ve not achieved shit. I’m still sitting in my house, on my parents’ money, doing nothing,” added the Aashram actor.
Opening up on Maera Mishra’s statements in the media about their breakup, Adhyayan Suman opined, “Whatever she said, I actually did not read anything between the lines. Whatever she said is absolutely her call, it’s not something that I want to counter because as she said ‘I’m a different person’, it’s not like I’ve changed, it’s just something that she felt, and as I said before, ‘We’re human beings, we change with situations and different situations make us a certain way.’ I’m at this point in life where I have survived and no matter what happens, I will not let anyone pull me down anymore. All I want right now in life is to achieve, achieve something so that I could make my parents proud. If I don’t do anything for them, it’d make me very sad — they’re my mother and father and so, may not expect much, but I’d feel very bad. So, I’m just on my journey of self-discovery, wanting to work hard — in this journey, people will come and people will go and somebody who’s meant to stay, one day, he or she will stay.”
A good perspective to have when dealing with such issues, right?
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